Tuesday, January 4, 2011

It’s 2011 and I’m getting married this year!!!

Hey everyone!!!

It’s been the longest time since I last updated. Well, for one, there really was not much to update. But it’s going to be a mad rush to year for us, as we are getting married this year. FINALLY!! Lol!! 2010 just whizzed by us.

Let’s see what I have done so far..

Seng and I have met up with the photographer that did his colleague’s wedding photo and video, and we got the quote and we are loving what we see, and so, finally, we have decided to get him to do our ROM and actual day photographer. His friend/associate, will be the one dealing with the videos. I’m so excited about it. We’ve finally got around to getting our photographer and videographer. As you all may already know, we are doing the solemnisation and traditional wedding seperately. Our solemnisation is just 4 MONTHS away! OMG!!!

And there are still so many things that we have not exactly looked into. I’ve finally decided to custom make a Cheongsum for my solemnisation. I have not done much research and such about tailors, but I’ve managed to look up some things over the holiday weekends. Just yesterday, Seng and I walked around Chinatown and look for tailors who do custom made cheongsums, and there are good number of them located in People’s Park Centre, Prices range from $280 onwards, if you are going to choose from their selection of fabrics. If you want to search for your own fabric, then the workmanship will range from $180 onwards. Seng’s mum also recommended a tailor, from Shanghai, who does custom made cheongsums. Apparently, one of the minister’s wife goes to her to have her cheongsums made. The prices range from $350 and above a piece. I’m not sure if the price includes the materials, I’ve got to call and ask though. Also, we have to look into Seng’s suit for the solemnisation and wedding. He said that he will be tailoring one suit for both days, and he would also tailor a number of matching shirts.

We went back to SHSS recently to look about again, and we have finalised where we would like to have our solmenisation ceremony. The school had changed so much, and with the new sport complex, it’s become ginormous! We have decided to hold the ceremony in the creativity hall, which is air conditioned. And the buffet will be held outside, at the sports complex area. It’s an opened area, where the basketball and netball courts are nearby. I will post pictures of the place when I get my hands on the photos from Seng. We have also sort of decided to cater from NeoGarden for the lunch reception.

Other than that, I have not done anything else!! I’ve yet to confirm where I want to get my cheongsum done, and I’ve recently looking around for makeup artistes for my ROM and actual day wedding, and my goodness, these people make good money. The prices of their services are pretty high. Lol! I thought to just kill two birds with one stone and book the MUA for both days. Save me the trouble of having to look for two makeup artistes on seperate occasions. I’ve also yet to finalise my trip to Taiwan, and liase with the bridal studio over there. Ok, I did email them, but have yet to get a reply from them. I need to chase them for confirmation on the lodgings, tours, airport transfer, and the schedule as there will be a total of nine of us going over togther. My family and Seng’s family will be going along as well, and we will all be taking a family potrait together. And also, my sister’s friend will be tagging along for the trip.

There’s still quite abit of stuff to look into, but we have to get the more important things like my dress and his suit started. Or at least finalise which tailor we want for out stuff. Designing of my cheongsum can then start after the chinese new year. I think that things will go into full speed the moment chinese new year is over. It’s beginning to dawn to alot of people around me that I’m getting married soon. It’s really funny. People keep saying next year, but the next year is already here.

As for our new home, we’re currently awaiting HDB to inform us on when we are to head down to sign the lease of agreement and put the deposit down on our new home. When that is done, we really do have one important thing out of the way for now. It’s going to be an exciting year for us this year.

I guess that’s about it for now. Meantime, stay happy and healthy.
Love,
Qiuru xx

Monday, October 25, 2010

New Home - Checked!!

I know, I know.. I promised that I would update on a more regular basis. However, in all honesty, there was not much to update. Seng and I have been slacking off on our wedding preparations due to our work commitments.

Well, I do have an update, which is in a way, way overdue here. Lol!!

We have selected out flat! Yay for us!! So yes, in case y’all want to buy 4D. Our unit number is #16-777. I’m totally psyched about our choice of unit coz we managed to get the unit that was number 1 on our list. And the cherry on top is that it is on the top floor. So yay!!!! I’m so happy about that.

What else? Hmm…

Oh yeah! I’ve got another good news! My cousin’s boyfriend proposed to her, and she’s getting married next year too! And so is Seng’s cousin! 3 weddings next year. Woo hoo!! Hopefully we all don’t clash so we can all attend each other’s wedding.

Seng and I have been looking around for photographers and videographers. We have recently gone for his colleagues wedding and we love love the video that was done. We do have some contacts and such. All we need to do now is to make time out to meet the photographers to go through their portfolios. I’m also looking for my makeup artist as well as a dress for my ROM. I’m still contemplating on tailoring a cheong sum for the ROM.

Seng and I sorta want to go with the Shangai theme when I mentioned to him that I wanted to tailor a cheong sum for the ROM. And we talked about him wearing a vest with a hat, and getting the brothers and sisters to do the same. We thought it would be interesting. LOL!! We are also planning to head back to SHSS to look at the place and confirm where we want to hold our ROM at. =D

Then just the other day my Dad suggested something. I’m not sure if I mentioned before that I’m not going to be giving door gifts as I feel like they are a waste of money, coz most of the stuff that the hotel’s or restaurants offer a pretty useless items. But my dad suggested that if we ever thought of giving door gifts, why not consider getting either USB thumbdrives or SD memory cards with our wedding photos in them. Some photos from our wedding shoot and ROM. I told Seng about this and he thought it was a pretty good idea, something different and unique. To me, I figured, if the guest don’t want to keep the photos, the thumbdrives or memory cards would come in handy. But the transfering of data would be rather tedious. LOL! Considering that we might have about 400-500 guests!

One update on our Taiwan bridal shoot cum trip, we have finally booked the air tickets. Next up is to liase with Ivy Brides on the acommadations. Which I need to do soon…… -_-”’

But yeah, that’s pretty much about it for our wedding updates. Not much to be honest.. LOL!!!
Take care peeps and drink loads of water!

Love,
Qiuru xx

Monday, June 21, 2010

ROM Dress / BTO

I’ve not been updating regularly of late. Hmm.. Well, things have been rather hectic at work and Seng and I have not much time with each other as before. He works shift hours, and sometimes gets called off for work stuff on is off days, so it’s been a little tight timing for us both.

Anyways, enough ranting. It’s my neighbour’s wedding day today. I did not go for the wedding dinner, as my only my parents were invited, but that’s fine. It looked like a hectic day for my neighbours today, and I got a peek into the couple’s new bedroom. It was really well done up. I’m happy for them.

So back to my wedding stuff.

Another item that I’ve been thinking alot about is the ROM dress. And this where it gets exciting because I have a number of ideas of what I want out of that dress. I’m looking at a number of options, but I’mreally really hoping for either a custom made overbust corset, that’s my number one choice, or Cheong Sum.

It’s funny, coz I’ve been emailing my cousin, who is currently studying in the UK recently since speaking to my Aunt. It seems that my cousin has been into corsets for awhile and had recently custom made one in the UK. She is super excited about my wedding, and had suggested to my Aunt that maybe I should get a corset custom made for the wedding. I thought it was a good idea, but I will renting the dress from the Bridal studio. Then it hit me! I don’t exactly have a dess for the ROM, and I’ve been looking around at renting a dress or getting one off the web. Now that my cousin, who so excitedly mentioned to me Aunt that a corset will look great on me as I am pretty well endowed, brought this idea up, I’m actually taking this into consideration.
We’ve been exchanging stuff through emails and I’m beginning to like the idea more and more. Of course, it just so happen that I’m kinda into corsets too, but there aren’t any corset makers in Singapore for me to have one custom made. But it seems like that is going to change. I spoek to my Dad about this and he mentioned something about the SQ girls wearing corsets under their uniform.

My Dad managed to speak to a SQ girl and she mentioned that they do go to a corset maker locally and the corset maker is located somewhere near Lau Pa Sat. Wootz!! The air stewardess will give my Dad the name and address and I’ll pop by to have a look about. However, the corset will not come cheap. My Dad mentioned that it will cost between $700 to $1000. But having one made in the UK, it will likely to cost just as much, and considering the amount of shipping I’d have to pay for the mock-up and materials and stuff. I’ll have to take a look and talk to the corset maker and see what can be worked out. Otherwise, I will consider a custom made Cheong Sum instead.

Well, I do need some options right? =D And if I managed to have the corset made, it’s flying with me, together with my school uniform, for my wedding shoot. I hope to incorporate it into the shoot as well, coz well, it is my ROM dress. Hee!! The ROM dress will be part of the album.
Did I mentioned that we also applied for a BTO in Sengkang? Yes, we did.

Our queue number *drumroll*
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993!

-_-”’

Not good. Haha!! There’s only 200 plus units available. Oh well, we will keep trying. We’ve applied for one in Punggol last month, and there’s another Punggol BTO coming up next month. Results for last month’s exercise will out next month. Keeping our fingers crossed. = )

The next item that requires our urgent attention is the wedding venue. Seng has everything under control, I hope. And updates on our visits to the various hotels will be coming up soon. So stay tuned!

Love,
Qiuru xx

Banquet Venue - Checked!!!

OMG! It’s already August!

It’s been a long while since my last update. It has been hectic so far with colleagues clearing leave through June and July, and us young people have to take over their work when they disappear for a week or so. And also for the fact that I’ve been an extremely lazy bum! Ha….
Anyways, back to important things. Seng and I have confirmed out banquet location. Yay!! But I did promise the insight of our hotel hunting. It’s just to keep the suspense going until I reveal the venue. Haha!!

Seng and I went hotel hunting over the previous weekend. We went to a handful if hotels as we were rather restricted due to the amount of tables we were expecting. We were looking at something between 40 to 50 tables. Yesh, I know, that’s alot of tables.

We went to the following locations:-
1) Novotel
2) Furma RiverFront
3) Grand Copthrone RiverFront
4) The Legends @ Fort Canning
5) The Hilton
6) Bliss Garden @ The Expo


Novotel was nice. I absolutely loved the reception area. It was big and roomy and cozy. With couches and a lovely bar. The ballroom was big, but I was doubtful about it being able to hold 50 tables. It looked like it would be extremely cramped. Then Grand Copthrone, I absolutely absolutly loved loved loved that ballroom. It was huge and grand, and the ceiling was super duper high. I walked in and I was just awed. My jaw dropped the moment I stepped in. Seng was like, oh crap, she likes this place and its going to cost me a bomb. The reception area was nice too, just that there were pillars all over, looked abit like a maze. But the place was super extremely grand.

We’ve been to Furama RiverFront before and we wanted to go back there to have a second look, after we’ve viewed some of the other hotels. And lucky us, there was a wedding going on that evening, so we were able to have a look at how the ballroom would be set up. They wedding had about 42 tables and to be honest, it looked cramped. Much to me and Seng’s surprise, but their package by far was THE most comprehensive. But we have gotten comments from friends that the food there is lousy.

The Legends @ Fort Cannings was not a bad place for an outdoor wedding, if the the breeze blew continously. I’m serious! Otherwise, you can consider an outdoor wedding there because the view is really nice and the space. My goodness, the place is huge! Seng and I popped by the Hilton one evening to have a look, the place looked grand, but the reception area was not all that fantastic. I loved the ceiling of the ballroom, but there were three pillars in the middle of the ballroom. Eek!!! So, Seng and I kind of struck that place out of our list.

Bliss Garden @ The Expo. Seng and I have been there before, and we’ve eaten there as well. It’s not a hotel, but a restaurant, and I think the food there is rather good. I’ve got the thumbs up from my parents and sisters, and I think we’ve got the thumb up from Seng’s parents as well. His sister thought that the vegetarian food there wa snot too bad. I thought it was quite well done. The place does not look all that fantastic, nothing that florist can make better. The place is pretty big as well, being able to carter up to 52 tables or more if we require.

Thus in the end, we chose…..

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Bilss Garden @ The Expo!

There are some details that Seng and I will have to g over for this venue, but I think we will be able to make the best of it. Well, we’ve put the deposit down, and set the date.

Which by the way, I’ve not yet announced our actual wedding day. Haha! Check out our wedding site, which will be updated soon!

Another wonderful news!! We’ve gotten our invitation to selece our flat on 18 August 2010, which is the week after next. Will update more on that once we have that done. This is so exciting!! Can't wait for that day.

Meantime, take care peeps! I should be updating on a more regular basis, since it is already August. Haha!!

Love y’all!
Qiuru xx

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Gold / Family Potraits

It’s been awhile since my last update. I’ve alot to tell you all about but not sure where to start.

Let’s see..

Gold. Gold jewelry to be exact. I think I’ve brought this up before, about the 4 types of gold. Well, we’ve got 3/4 of that done. We’re still missing the gold chain, of which Seng and I have both an eye on a particular piece. The total price for all four pieces are still within budget. Whew!!

Just last weekend, my family went to Poh Heng and got the tea ceremony gifts. I got a bracelet and a gold chain from my aunt. A ring, necklace and a hard bracelet from my parents. It was really fun as my aunt and uncle came along to help choose the jewelry. After which we went to Tonkichi for dinner.

So we’ve got the gold part, on my family’s side. Still got Seng’s side of the family.

It’s almost June! Wow, the year is passing by so quickly.

Did I mention that both sides of our immediate families will be going along with us to Taiwan for our photoshoot? Yup, it’s happening. As it so happens, Ivy Bride were in town recently, and they were at Tampines Mall. Met up with Jojo and talked about family potraits. I thought since my family will be going along to Taiwan, more so for a holiday, we might as well take another family potrait. The first one was for my sisters’ graduation.

The package came out pretty comprehensive so my Dad got the potrait package as did Seng’s mum. Yay!! Sort of like another item off the list.

We’ve also recently met up with a geomancer and gotten some dates for the actual wedding day. Of all the dates, Seng and I like 3 of them the best.

1) 25 September 2011
2) 22 October 2011
3) 27 November 2011


Seng sort of worked his schedule out and is hoping to book the hotel by the end of June. It will be off to visiting hotels in the month of June. Sounds exciting but it will be tiring. Well, at least by end of June we will have another important item off the wedding list.

There are other things I want to tell you all about but I’ll save them for next time. Meantime, take care y’all.

Love,
Qiuru xx

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Wedding Bands

Choosing the wedding bands is every couple’s headache.

I say that because it was a headache for me and Seng. Looking at all possible designs from jeweler to jeweler, and the more we see the more confused we got. For one, we decided that we did not want to go to the mainstream jewelers, and two, we were on a budget. Well, Seng and I thought that we don’t have to spend alot for a wedding band. It had to be of a classic design, simple yet modern and elegant. And something that would last a lifetime, design and durability wise.

After looking at rings from various jewelers, we decided to go ala carte.

Why?

Very simple. Seng and I could not come to a compromise on the design of the rings. For example, if he saw a design that he liked, I would not really like it, and vice versa. So, we thought, why not try to find designs that were closely similar to compliment each other. But so far, ziltch.

It was until we went to a jeweler, and I found my dream wedding ring. But! There in lies another headache, we had to find one for Seng that would compliment the ring I wanted. After searching, we finally got really fustrated and decided, what the hell. It’s just a freaking ring that symbolises us being married, and any ring should work fine, as long as they don’t disintegrate 5 years down the road. So why not we just get what we like, seperately. As in totally different designs that totally did not compliment each other. And we did, and we were 3/4 way into getting them. Haha…

That’s when I got a nagging session from my parents.

I loved the ring that I wanted so badly, but I also loved the ring that Seng wanted to get as his ring. So me and my parents went back to the jeweler, where we saw Seng’s ring, and took a second look at the ring. Did I mention that they had the ring in Seng’s and my size? My parents actually like that ring, and commented that it looked and felt solid.

Thus, we decided that we were done searching.


Our wedding bands!



With flash


The photos do not do justice to the rings. Bleah…

Ok, ok.. I know what you all are thinking. Didn’t I say we didn’t want the same looking type of wedding bands? Yes, I did. But for once, Seng and I actually liked the same ring, and they fit perfectly. And also they were the last pair. And they were going at an affordable price, for a solid piece of metal, with diamonds, embedded in the ring, all around.

So yes, we got them.

Practically a year in advance. The ROM is in April next year.

But!!! One item off the list, one less thing to think about. Hah…

Qiuru xx

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Pressies from China

Ok, I know the title sounds weird, but hear me out. My parents had recently went on a short trip to China. Well, it was really to repritriate my Grandfather’s ashes back to him hometown in Sua Tao, but at the same time, who can resist shopping in China.

So, shopping they went and they came home with pressies for me. I thought, hey, what can they buy for me except foodstuff right? Wrong!!! They bought a bunch of wedding stuff!! I think they are more excited than I am. Haha!! Well, scroll down for the picture of they stuff they got for me!
The stickers and ribbons we will use on the actual day

Stickers & Ribbons
Look at all the red packets!

Ang Baos

Upclose of the red packets

Ang Baos upclose


A cloth to drape over a tray
Cloth


Upclose of the design on the cloth
Cloth upclose


Don’t forget the tray which can be used for the An Chuan, Guo Dai Li or Tea Ceremony. The photo’s kinda off centred. Haha!!
Tray


Guess what these are!!
Flowers

It’s a decor item. A ball of plastic flowers!! =P

Flower decor

They make a good flower hat too!! Ok, I look ridiculous!

Flowers


And my favourite item of the lot!! The tea set!
Tea set


There’s actually another item. A decorative item that is to be hung up, but I could not find a place to hang it up to take a photo of it. Haha!! And the best part of all, this is just the beginning. I think my parents will be going again, and have asked if I want to go along as well. They told me that the shop sells a whole lot of wedding stuff. Oh oh oh!!! Guess how much the lot cost. About 200+ RMB. Super duper cheap!!! And in case you are wondering, the quality is pretty good, not the cheapo stuff. Especially the tea set.

I was super duper excited when I saw the stuff. =P I can’t wait to go with them later this year to have a look and see what else I can get from there. Hehe! Shopping!!! Lala~

=P

Qiuru xx